Collaborative mediation is a style of mediation where two or more people are encouraged to work toward resolution in a transparent and peaceful manner. The goal is to support you to unfold the issues and create fair agreements that will stand the test of time.

Principles

• Work together with a shared purpose
• Be open: ideas, issues & concerns are transparent and 'on the table'
• Honor each participant's right to self-determination
• Honor those not present. (This might include children, siblings, parents, grandparents, co-workers, whichever applies.)

Process

• Have authentic conversation
• Speak clearly
• Listen openly
• Interact cooperatively
• Honor each person's ideas, desires, knowledge & skills
• Consider possibilities and choices on multiple levels
• Make decisions

Mediator's Role

• Invite each person to speak clearly & listen carefully
• Facilitate discussion
• Be multi-partial (concerned for everyone)
• Highlight issues raised
• Be transparent
• Educate participants about process
• Guide or offer ideas, when requested
• Refer to community services and other professionals
• Record agreements